5 Tips to Attracting New Job or Client

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Are you nervous about your work life? Are you worrried about getting your next job? For those entrepreneurial spirits, if you want to put it out there that you want to be your own boss -my Ring ShuiTM approach just may be what can help to give you the confidence and positive energy that you need!

I’ve developed an amazing approach to make your fingers go to that interview with you and work for you to get that job. It’s called Ring ShuiTM.

Are you familiar with the Law of Attraction?  Your thoughts are powerful in your outcomes…Take a look a the video below and listen to 5 points:

  • A Ring on the Right Ring Finger Means Stability
  • A Ring on the RIGHT MIDDLE FINGER  Means Conflict
  • A Ring on your RIGHT INDEX FINGER means an Entrepreneurial Spirit
  • A Ring on your THUMB Means Subservience
  • A Ring on your PINKY FINGER Means Solo

Try it, I’d love to hear your feedback below

Move your rings CHANGE your lifeTM

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4 Step Plan for Expressing Anger Effectively

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Take a breath – be positive – be part of the solution  - do not be part of the problem

Step 1

Repeat positive and calming self-statements IMMEDIATELY, such as “I’ll get through this OK, Relax, Breath”.  Nothing is worth my making it worse.”

Since your anger has been triggered, and you may be out of control, stop everything.  Take deep breaths slowly – as they say – count to ten, OR take a walk.

Step 2

Save your energy and curb your feelings.  In many anger-provoking situations it’s necessary to emotionally take time out before you reach your limit.  Don’t keep trying so hard.  If your expectations for your work or your relationships are too high, you may have become too emotionally involved.

Don’t saturate yourself in disappointment.  You are not as alone or without options as you think you are.

Step 3

Tell yourself you have a choice in how you respond.  You DO have a choice.

Have you ever opened your eyes in the morning and thought, “This is going to be a great day?”  You can do likewise with anger.  Tell yourself, “If I feel angry today, I’ll let myself feel the pain and possibly get hurt, but I don’t have to react with razor blade words, I have choices.”

If an anger-provoking confrontation with someone occurs, without making excuses for others, try to resist the temptation to take the situation personally.

Step 4

Calm down enough to manage the situation;  THEN and only then, make a plan and follow through.

When you feel calmer, think back to what happened from as many views as possible.  Set a goal of having less stress in your life.  NO act that ultimately damages your life emotionally and/or legally is worth the price you’ll pay for immediate relief.

Keep in touch with where you are on the Stress Management rating scale.  Subscribe to my newsletter and get a copy of my free ebook “What’s Your Stress Level, Tips for Managing Stress with the Ring ShuiTM Approach” that focuses in more detail on steps to relieve stress and how to incorporate Ring ShuiTM into the process.

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Use Social Activity As A Service and Benefit

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Do you find you only feel “worthy” when you are getting attention from others?  Then you may find yourself feeling like you are  ”disappearing” when you are in a group of people and don’t stand out in some way.  You may not understand why you feel this way or that you are even doing it.

In work-related groups or social clubs, make a point of getting involved for the benefit of others as well as for yourself.  Approach work or social organizations as if it’s a priviledge for you to serve others.

Feel free to give what you can and “sing your heart out.”  If you make room for others in the group to benefit along with you, you will be better received and appreciated for your efforts.

If you really are doing some “big” things, involving others and helping them, as well as letting them help you, this truly makes you a wonderful person.  Also, you will probably evoke less jealously from people when you don’t come from the standpoint of just aggrandizing yourself.

When you stand out and become a “star”, play your part, then blend in again.  Consider it a priviledge to play a leadership role but know there’s also plenty to gain from sitting back and letting others shine when it’s their turn.  You get a better grasp of the big picture and better sense of yourself when you are part of the crowd and don’t take yourself so seriously.

Don’t Compare Yourself to Others

Make a list of five acquaintances or idols you feel are successful in some way.  Write down how and why they are so accomplished.  Then consider their burdens and flaws if you know them.

They all have hurdles possibly ones you would never want to have to overcome yoursels.  As much as you might fantasize about being someone else, his or her life can’t really be more right for you than your own.

The sooner you let go of envying or idolizing others and focus on your own assets and challenges, the better off you will be.  Learn from them as much as you can, but focus on your own special uniqueness.

The future is yours… what we put out we get back…share your authentic self.  What are you going to do differently? Please share your comments, I’d love to help you.

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