Do you find you only feel “worthy” when you are getting attention from others? Then you may find yourself feeling like you are ”disappearing” when you are in a group of people and don’t stand out in some way. You may not understand why you feel this way or that you are even doing it.
In work-related groups or social clubs, make a point of getting involved for the benefit of others as well as for yourself. Approach work or social organizations as if it’s a priviledge for you to serve others.
Feel free to give what you can and “sing your heart out.” If you make room for others in the group to benefit along with you, you will be better received and appreciated for your efforts.
If you really are doing some “big” things, involving others and helping them, as well as letting them help you, this truly makes you a wonderful person. Also, you will probably evoke less jealously from people when you don’t come from the standpoint of just aggrandizing yourself.
When you stand out and become a “star”, play your part, then blend in again. Consider it a priviledge to play a leadership role but know there’s also plenty to gain from sitting back and letting others shine when it’s their turn. You get a better grasp of the big picture and better sense of yourself when you are part of the crowd and don’t take yourself so seriously.
Don’t Compare Yourself to Others
Make a list of five acquaintances or idols you feel are successful in some way. Write down how and why they are so accomplished. Then consider their burdens and flaws if you know them.
They all have hurdles possibly ones you would never want to have to overcome yoursels. As much as you might fantasize about being someone else, his or her life can’t really be more right for you than your own.
The sooner you let go of envying or idolizing others and focus on your own assets and challenges, the better off you will be. Learn from them as much as you can, but focus on your own special uniqueness.
The future is yours… what we put out we get back…share your authentic self. What are you going to do differently? Please share your comments, I’d love to help you.
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