Balancing Your Life with Ring ShuiTM

balancing relationships

balancing relationshipsWhile you are making changes it’s most important to consider the structure of things that you DO have in your life that are working well and you want to keep them the same as possible. It is important to recognize what stability and structure you already have.

In fact the more grounded you are with certain  structures in your life such as a place to live and certain friends, the more you will be able to consider your intentions for what you want to release in your life, put out to the world, and bring back to you.

The Ring ShuiTM approach can help you with your intentions concerning secure structures and desired change.  When you wear a ring on your right ring finger and your left ring finger if you are married or want to feel connected to yourself inside, that will help you with your intentions of feeling grounded, stable, and chosen by someone to love.

When you wear rings on your right and/or left index finger, you will feel a sense of being able to make changes with intentions of what you desire to release or bring into you.

I have found that the days when I am most in need of both security and change, I wear rings on both ring fingers left and right and both index fingers left and right.  That action along with the intention of what I want from each finger, helps me feel solid within myself throughout the day.

I don’t do this everyday, but I intentionally wear my rings in the manner above on the days when I feel a lot is going on and I need more inner support . In fact, on the days when I wear this configuration of the four rings, I find I attract what I am looking for from people and situations that I might not have considered before.

Give it a try and let me know what you think.  I’d love to hear from you – click on the title of this post and add your comments in the box below!

Take Care of Your Needs – FIRST!

For many of us, the saddest prospect would be to never experience the “love of a lifetime”, a relationship with that special someone who absolutely adored and cared for us just as we are.  Equally important-if not more so-is the potential tragedy of never coming to terms with ‘fully loving yourself’ just the way you are.

We’ve all read or heard it said that no one else can ever love you more than you truly love yourself.  Yet it’s so easy to deceive yourself, to act as if you’re focused and satisfied when you really aren’t, to try to persuade yourself and the world to think you’re someone you’re not.  You end up actually deceiving those who do want to get close.

It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy.  If you don’t believe that others will accept your true Self, then you’re not giving them the person you really are.  And if you don’t give others who you really are, there’s no way they can every truly love and accept the real you.

The most important and helpful way to cut through this self-deception and imbalance in power is to take a detached but compassionate look at the roles you play in your life.

  • Are you effective going after the things you really want?
  • Do good people and situations seem to come your way?
  • Do things generally work out?
  • Are you being genuine?
  • Who are you attracting and why?

Try to answer these questions as honestly as you can.

It’s important to get to a place where you can accept yourself even if others don’t.  Only then can you be ready to move on when you need to, and to accept positive occurrences without questioning whether they’re “too good to be true.”  YOU are worth it and YOU deserve the BEST!

If you are alone, take some time to relax.  Take some time to just ‘BE‘ and enjoy YOUR company

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